Quantum Questions

Do you believe in fate or chance? I really can’t decide, but the more I think about the Choice Mom path the more I come up with unanswerable questions, such as:

• What if I begin trying to have a baby after I turn 30 and I miss out on meeting Mr. Right?
• What if I would have met him but he passes me by because I’m pregnant, or have a kid?
• What if I decide to delay trying for a baby so instead of going to a doctor’s appointment I go to, let’s say a grocery store, and there I meet The One?
• Or what if I wait 10+ years for him to get his white-horse-riding, shining-armor-wearing butt over here and he doesn’t show, and it’s too late?
• What if I wait 10 years, and then I meet him, and it’s still too late?
• What if I don’t meet him until I’m 50?....Or 60?....Or older?
• What if I never meet him?
• What if I already lost my chance with the one that would have been The One?
• What if no man was created to be my other half?

But what if every step I take is the one I’m meant to take? What if being a Choice mom is what I'm truely meant to be, whether some guy comes along later or not?